POV: "FOOLISH NONSENSE": A STORY OF THE SHORTEST RELATIONSHIP I HAD EVER BEEN IN AND HOW THE HOLY SPIRIT QUICKLY STEPPED IN 🙏. A STORY OF HOW DANGEROUSLY THE SHINY THING SYNDROME HAS SO MUCH BEDEVILED THE YOUTHS OF OUR GENERATION .

 

Have you as a Christian lady or even a Guy ever gotten into a relationship out of sheer pressure with no sort of conviction or peace 🚫🤷? 

Well if you have news is you're not alone because I have had an experience of same sort when I was still single so permit me share my story... 

That was my penultimate year in the university and I recently met a fellow brother who attended the same fellowship with me in school at the time. 

As you can also rightly guess, this guy ticked all the boxes of every young girl's fantansies of an ideal man or boyfriend. From good looks to deep pockets (so I heard from people as his reputation and family background) and to crown it all he was a regular in church; meaning he was perfect and The Lord was definitely involved in this right 😂😂😂.

To make matters worse, all my 'close friends' thought he was my "Mr. Right" and so in as much as I knew deep down within me that this wasn't even to be considered how much more getting involved in, I disobeyed my Spirit and God's voice, listened to the noice of the world and considered mundane physical attributes and said yes to a man I knew I had no business letting into my personal space let alone my life; all for what reason.... PEER PRESSURE!!! 

And what was the result? The very moment I said 'Yes'. I instantly felt that something deep and unseen left me and I knew without any shadow of doubt that the Holy Spirit had left me and He took His Peace along with Him as He left.

Brethren I lost my peace in such an uncommon chaotic manner that I could hardly even mention the name of Jesus. To me at that point it felt like I was unclean, and unworthy to even mention His name and that if I did it sound nothing short of blasphemy to my ears.

But Thank God for His Mercies (to whom God will have mercy, He will have mercy and to whom He will have compassion, He will have compassion), and as God would have it; a few days still within that same week our fellowship organized a vigil prayer program (that should be like on Friday or something) and of course I and my new found love attended. (Of course I was obviously pretending that all was well with my spiritual and prayer life).

And right in the middle of the intense worship session, the brother who led the fellowship at the time walked up to me where I stood and whispered into my ears saying that the Lord had told him to ask me why I decided to disobey Him and enter into FOOLISH NONSENSE 😭😭. 

I can never forget His exact words. The Holy Spirit was clearly angry and stern with me that day. I have come too far with the Lord to provoke Him this much 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 and I knew that I had to fix it immediately or else....

Immediately he said those words into my ears he turned and walked away and never spoke to me about it till this very day.

I nearly fainted because I couldn't even feign ignorance of what he was talking about. I was instantly broken in the spirit and I began to cry shamelessly asking God for mercy. 

As soon as the dismissal Grace was shared, without wasting another second, I quickly picked up my phone and sent an it's over between us text to that guy in question without bothering to offer him any reason. All attempts by him to call me back or see me afterwards met with very stiff and rude replies and reactions because I knew this was a battle for my destiny and I wasn't about to play sentimental with it. He knew that I meant it seriously. 

That was obviously the shortest and most meaningless relationship I had ever gotten into. All because I refused to first run a man's proposal through the Holy Spirit first for approval and I listened to the noises of men and their pressure as against the voice of God and the leading of the Holy Spirit. 

I almost made the costliest mistake of life that would have without mincing words led me to some sort of regret or the other (God forbid) had the Lord not scolded me back to correction on time. 

Now that I think over it, I've come to realize that it was the Lord lovingly playing His fatherly role over me by warning and protecting me from impending danger at all cost even when it was I who foolishly decided to defy good sense by first consulting Him before walking down a Wong path that looked shiny to me. 

It also made me to come to a place of gratitude to Jesus who has never left me alone since the day I give my life to Christ. And also to thank Him for giving me a heart of flesh and not stone to listen to Him and take collection when He came to correct and redeem me from my foolishness. 

If you have read till this point and you have a similar experience to share please do so in the comments section so that others can be blessed especially our single brothers and sisters. 

Thank you and God bless you.

Is Achieving Balance as a Wife and Mother Actually Ever Possible

Mastering life as a wife and mother can be a challenging yet rewarding experience. In this video, we'll dive into the essential skills and mindset shifts needed to balance your roles, prioritize self-care, and cultivate a sense of fulfillment and purpose. From time management and communication tips to setting boundaries and practicing self-compassion, we'll cover it all. Join us as we explore the art of mastering life as a wife and mother, and discover the secrets to living a happy, healthy, harmonious and balanced life.

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6 Ideal Traits of a Pastor's Wife

 

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Ever wondered what makes a truly impactful pastor's wife? 🤔 Discover the 6 Key Characteristics of a Pastor's Wife that empower, support, and inspire! This video dives deep into the essential qualities that contribute to a thriving ministry and a strong family.

What are the secret strengths of a Pastor's Wife? 🤫 Uncover the Top 6 Characteristics that define her vital role in the church and community! This video explores the often-unseen qualities of a pastor's wife, from her unwavering faith and supportive nature to her graceful spirit and wise counsel. We'll also discuss the importance of hospitality and resilience in navigating the unique challenges of ministry life. Gain a deeper appreciation for the incredible contribution of a pastor's spouse! 

Learn about the key traits that enable her to effectively support her husband, nurture her family, and serve the church community. We'll delve into the significance of faith, supportiveness, grace, wisdom, hospitality, and resilience in the daily life of a pastor's wife. This is a must-watch for anyone involved in church leadership, ministry, or interested in understanding the crucial role of a pastor's spouse.

Whether you're a church leader, a member of the congregation, or simply curious, this insightful discussion will illuminate the vital role of a pastor's spouse. Don't miss these crucial insights! See you inside!

Telling My Story as a Pastor's Wife... My Unique Experience and Journey So Far

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As a pastor's wife, the journey I’ve walked has been filled with both triumphs and challenges, each moment shaping me in ways I never anticipated. The title of “pastor’s wife” often carries with it an aura of reverence and expectation—one that can feel both empowering and overwhelming. But behind the pulpit, beyond the public prayers and sermons, is a story not often told. This book is my attempt to share that story.

The Behind the Pulpit Story of a Pastor’s Wife: Navigating the Balance of Faith, Family, and Ministry is an intimate reflection of my personal journey. It unveils the complexities of living in the delicate space between being a wife, a mother, and a partner in ministry. It sheds light on the unique challenges we face—balancing the demands of a family with the needs of a congregation, remaining steadfast in faith while navigating moments of doubt, and managing the unseen emotional toll that comes with walking alongside a leader in the church.

In these pages, you will discover my experiences, struggles, and the moments of grace that have helped me persevere. I share these insights not only for those who walk in similar shoes but also for those who wish to understand the heart behind the pulpit—the woman who stands in the shadow of the one delivering the message, and yet is called to a ministry of her own.

My hope is that this book will offer encouragement, understanding, and strength to all who read it—whether you are a pastor’s wife, a church member, or simply someone interested in the complexities of faith, family, and service. This journey is not easy, but it is rewarding beyond measure. Through it all, I have come to realize that it is possible to find harmony between the sacred and the everyday, and that faith, family, and ministry can exist in beautiful balance.

Thank you for joining me on this journey. I pray that you find strength, inspiration, and hope as you navigate your own path, wherever it may lead.Through heartfelt anecdotes, poignant reflections, and sincere revelations, this book offers a glimpse into the often overlooked complexities and blessings woven into the fabric of a pastor's wife's life. It is a tribute to the silent strength and unwavering commitment of these women as they navigate the delicate balance of serving their families, supporting their spouses, and nurturing their own spiritual aspirations.

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Signs That God is Preparing You For Marriage as Soon as Possible

Once upon a time, in a small village nestled among the rolling hills, there lived a young girl named Anna. Anna had always dreamed of finding true love and building a life with someone special. Little did she know that the greatest love story of all was already being woven by the hands of the Master Weaver.

From a young age, Anna had been raised to trust in the unseen hand of God, who had a divine plan for her life. She often prayed for a partner who would walk beside her through life’s journey, sharing in both joy and sorrow. Little did she know that God was already at work, preparing her heart and soul for the love that was to come.

As Anna grew older, she faced many trials and challenges that tested her faith. Yet through it all, she held onto the belief that God was molding her into the woman she was destined to be. With each hardship, she learned to lean on the strength of her Creator and the wisdom of His word.

One day, as the sun dipped below the horizon and painted the sky in hues of pink and gold, Anna met a young man named Thomas. From their very first meeting, Anna felt a connection unlike any other. Thomas was kind, gentle, and filled with a love that seemed to overflow from his heart.

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Men Love Women That Detach When They are Distant or Silent and Here's Why

Once upon a time, in a bustling city filled with the buzz of life and love, there lived a young woman named Sophia. Sophia was a vibrant and passionate soul, with a heart as big as the ocean. She poured her love and energy into a relationship with a man named Alex, hoping to build a future together filled with love and happiness.

From the outside, their relationship seemed perfect. They would go on romantic dates, share intimate moments, and laugh together under the stars. But as time went on, Sophia began to feel a shift in their dynamic. Alex would blow hot and cold, one moment showering her with affection and the next withdrawing into silence and distance.

Confused and hurt, Sophia tried to make sense of Alex's behavior. She would reach out to him, trying to bridge the gap that formed between them, only to be met with gaslighting and manipulation. Alex would dismiss her feelings, making her doubt her own emotions and leaving her feeling lost and alone.

Despite the pain and confusion, Sophia held on to hope that things would change. She believed that if she just loved him enough, if she tried hard enough, Alex would come around and give her the love and attention she deserved. But as time passed, she realized that she was fighting a losing battle. She saw that Alex's inconsistent behavior and emotional manipulation were taking a toll on her mental and emotional well-being.

One day, Sophia made a choice. She chose to detach herself from Alex and the toxic cycle of their one-sided relationship. She realized that her worth was not defined by his fleeting affection or empty promises. She understood that true love should lift her up, not tear her down.

Two Major Secrets That Helped My Husband and I To Achieve Christian Courtship and Ultimately Kingdom Marriage

 Are you a Christian Single Lady or Gentleman who's just gotten into a courtship or relationship with marriage in view for you and your partner and you both desire to enjoy a Kingdom dating process that will ultimately lead to Kingdom Marriage and purpose but you both are wondering how to go about with it then this video is for you. 

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How to know if a Man is Worth Your Time and Worth Your Effort and Consideration - Full YouTube Channel Video

 If as a single Christian Lady, you do not know what to look out for physically in a husband even while you pray then this video is for you. Head over now to our YouTube Channel and watch the video and please do let me know in the comments if the Holy Spirit is highlighting one or two points for you personally 

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Dear Single Lady Are You Entertaining A Time Waster In The Name of a Long Term Relationship

 Dear Single ladies,

How long do you think is reasonable enough to wait for a relationship to move from one stage to another? That is to transit from courtship/dating to marriage 

I hope you know there is a difference between patience and time wasting🤷🏻? 

In my own opinion I'd say anything between 12 months to 24 months max is more than enough for you to know with certainty the directional compass of your existing relationship.

Notice I didn't use the term years but months because for most serious matured men wanting to settle down and build a home, even as little as one month or less is enough for them to know within them if they want to get married to you someday and it's usually evident in their subtle actions and words from day to day. 

The only problem is that most of us ladies are too carried away with the euphoria of love and being in a relationship with just anyone that we hardly pay attention to signs and details.

Time is of essence to any woman that desire to marry. Let nobody deceive you thereby wasting precious years of your life. 

The Messy Magic of Motherhood: Navigating the Everyday Chaos**

Motherhood: It's beautiful, messy, exhausting, and exhilarating all at once. The Instagram reels often showcase picture-perfect moments, but the reality? It's a whirlwind of spilled milk, tantrums, and never-ending laundry. 

* **The Laundry Monster:** This mythical beast seems to devour mountains of clothes daily. From spit-up stains to muddy footprints, the laundry basket is a constant companion. 

* **The Snack Attack Squad:** Tiny tummies have insatiable appetites. Preparing nutritious meals while juggling demands from multiple children is a Herculean feat.