HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR OWN MR. RIGHT AS A SINGLE LADY QUICKER AND FASTER...

 

HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR MR. RIGHT QUICKER AND FASTER...

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‎Some ladies think being friendly with guys will make them think they are cheap so they act aloof or tough to keep their "dignity" and "honour", you may never attract your soul mate that way.

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‎What makes a lady cheap is desperation-chasing a guy who has no single interest in you also makes you cheap, aside that baby, no where are you cheap for God's sake! Loosen up! But always make sure the guy makes the initial moves and chasing, Biko kwa🙏

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‎Being friendly with guys won't make you lose rapture, neither will your virginity disappear because you smile at godly brothers.

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‎Be friendly! Friendly ladies easily attract suitors. Learn to smile. Stop carrying the problem of your lineage on your head! Everyone has problems please, we all must learn to handle our challenges with maturity and grace!

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‎Stop treating guys like trash so they can see you as super high! Stop acting like you don't need a man, you need a man, that is why you are a woman and a man needs you. 

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‎You need a man sweetheart. Be humble, acknowledge it and make yourself approachable, likeable and lovable. If you don't need a man in your life, you won't be envying your friends and siblings who are getting married.

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‎That you made mistakes in the past doesn't mean you should now act cold to show true repentance, no! The Bible says, "A man that hath friends must himself be friendly". If you want men to troop towards you, be friendly!

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‎Caution needs to be taken though, lest your being friendly turns to something else. Set boundaries..

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‎Don't run after a guy that does not respond to or reciprocate your friendliness. Friendship is a two way thing. I call you, you call me. I respect you, you respect me. If you are the one doing all the calls, reaching out, etc, that friendship is sick and you need to re-define it.

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‎With God and adequate knowledge, a blissful marriage is surely guaranteed!

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‎You will not miss it!

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‎Amen 🙏🏾

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“From Misunderstanding to Harmony: How Christian Couples Can Communicate Effectively”

So on Wednesday 1st of October, 2025 my husband and I celebrated our 9th Year Marriage Anniversary and here's one major lesson I've learned so far in my years of marriage so far: 

The Secret Language of Love: Communication Tips for Christian Married Couples"

Discover practical and biblical communication tips for Christian couples. Laugh, connect, and strengthen your marriage with God’s wisdom and humor.”

Picture this:

A Christian husband and wife are in the middle of what we call a “heated fellowship.” He thinks she meant this, she swears she said that. Meanwhile, the neighbor’s dog is outside barking as if to say, “Can somebody please communicate properly in this house?”

Sound familiar? Don’t worry—you’re not alone. Communication in marriage is like WiFi. When it’s strong, everything flows smoothly. But when the connection is weak? My dear, even the simplest “How are you?” can turn into a full-blown misunderstanding worthy of its own prayer vigil.

But here’s the good news: as Christian couples, God has given us the ultimate manual on communication—His Word. And today, let’s laugh, learn, and lean on some biblical truths about talking (and listening!) to each other in marriage.

Why Communication Is the Glue of Christian Marriage.

The Single Woman’s Personal "Sabbath" : How to Rest, Reflect, and Rebuild Before Marriage.

What Does Sabbath Really Mean for the Single Christian Woman?

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‎The "Sabbath rest for singles" is an intentional pause—a sacred rhythm to realign with God's voice. It’s a time for "Christian woman reflection" and renewal.

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‎How Resting Intentionally Prepares You for Marriage

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‎You can’t pour into someone else when you’re running on empty. Rest teaches:

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‎* Emotional regulation

‎* Listening to God

‎* Cultivating inner peace

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‎Spiritual Disciplines to Practice During Your Waiting Season.

Faith, Finances & the Future: Building a God-Honoring Lifestyle While Waiting for Love.

Why Financial Wisdom Is a Form of Spiritual Preparation

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‎Financial maturity is vital for preparing for Godly marriage. As a single woman, the way you steward your income reflects your trust in God. Christian financial stewardship involves tithing, saving, budgeting, and planning without fear.

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‎Saving and Spending with Purpose as a Single Woman

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‎Your money habits now will follow you into marriage. Start by:

Reasons Why You Shouldn't Watch Porn as a Christian and Godly Couple

You can’t claim to be be a Christian couple, and watching po*n to learn sex. No. You can’t learn sex in its holy sanctity as intended by the God you claim to live and serve from depraved demonic expressions. You can’t learn to please God from the devil. Porn is demonic; full stop! 

It is the one of the worst perversion of sex. You’re destroying yourself and your marriage, and that’s unfaithfulness in every possible and impossible way of the highest order. Both to God and your partner.

Often times, we attribute unfaithfulness to one partner cheating on the other. However, watching porn together as a couple or engaging in sexual acts that include a third party, is unfaithfulness to God, because a godly marriage consist of three people: you, your partner and God. 

More like fighting a Godly battle with the devil's strategy or armour.

So in all you do, you must be faithful to Jesus. Because I'm aware of the conversation around porn helping people with their sexual lives, but again I ask, how do you learn how to be clean from a dirty pig?

So how can you a Christian, is watching two or more satanic agents of end time mass destruction committing fornication in such an unrealistic, shameless and distorted way, to learn sex in all its sacredness for implementation in your marriage? This is highly morally inconsistent according to biblical precepts. You can’t save your marriage with the soiled hands of sin.

From Being "Intentionally Spiritually Single" to Becoming " Intentionally Spiritually Prepared": How to Align Your Life with God’s Plan for Marriage.

 

Why Singleness Is a Season of Purpose

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‎Your single season is a gift, not a curse. It’s the time to serve God without distraction and define your personal mission and values.

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‎Creating a Life That Reflects Readiness for Marriage

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‎Ask yourself: "Would I want to marry me?" Become the kind of spouse you’re praying for.

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‎* Develop life skills (cooking, budgeting, time management)

‎* Heal from past emotional baggage

‎* Serve in ministry or community

Becoming Whole Before ‘The One’ Comes Along: Sustainable Living for the Christian Single Woman.

 

What It Means to Live Sustainably as a Christian Woman While Preparing Intentionally For Marriage...

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‎Living sustainably isn't just about eco-friendly habits. For the *Christian single woman lifestyle, it means aligning every area of your life—physical, emotional, spiritual, and financial—with God’s design and purpose. It means stewarding your time, energy, and resources in ways that glorify Him.

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‎The Importance of Emotional and Spiritual Wholeness Before Marriage

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‎Becoming whole before marriage* is foundational. You weren’t created to be "half" waiting for another half. God wants you to be a whole person before entering a covenant. This wholeness involves healing from past wounds, forgiving others and yourself, and finding your identity solely in Christ.

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‎Eco-Friendly Habits that Reflect Inner Stewardship

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A LADY WHO WANTS JUST YOUR MONEY AND NOT COMMITMENT WILL DO THESE:

 

Warning signs of a lady who wants only your money, not commitment:

_Verbal Cues:_

1. Constantly talks about financial security

2. Asks about your income or wealth

3. Expects expensive gifts or outings

4. Uses phrases like "treat me right"

5. Discusses financial benefits of relationship

_Action Cues:_

1. Only initiates contact when needing financial help

2. Spends lavishly, expecting you to pay

3. Doesn't contribute financially

4. Uses guilt or emotional manipulation

5. Prioritizes material possessions

_Emotional Cues:_

1. Lack of emotional vulnerability

2. Doesn't show interest in your feelings

3. Prioritizes financial gain over connection

4. Displays possessiveness or control

5. Emotional unavailability

_Behavioral Patterns:_

1. Has history of financially dependent relationships

2. Uses social media to showcase luxury lifestyle

3. Constantly seeks upgrades or expensive items

4. Avoids discussing long-term plans

5. Flirts with others for financial gain

_Red Flags:_

1. Asks for money or financial favors early on

2. Has outstanding debts or financial troubles

3. Uses manipulative or coercive tactics

4. Disappears when financial support stops

5. Multiple concurrent relationships for financial gain

_Biblical Perspective:_

1. "Love of money is a root of evil." (1 Timothy 6:10)

2. "Do not be yoked with unbelievers." (2 Corinthians 6:14)

3. "Seek first the kingdom of God." (Matthew 6:33)

4. "Godliness with contentment is great gain." (1 Timothy 6:6)

5. "Wise financial stewardship." (Proverbs 22:7)

_Protect Yourself:_

1. Set clear financial boundaries

2. Prioritize emotional connection

3. Evaluate her values and priorities

4. Watch for inconsistencies

5. Seek counsel from trusted friends or mentors

_Remember:_

1. Your worth isn't defined by financial wealth.

2. Emotional connection matters.

3. Mutual respect is essential.

4. God's plan prioritizes love and commitment.

5. Prioritize your emotional and spiritual well-being.

6 Areas of Every Woman's Life She Needs to Build Up Intentionally - Full YouTube Video on My Channel.

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