FOR THOSE WHO HAVE FALLEN FOR A COUNTERFEIT!
If you are 'dating' any of these people, then you have fallen for a COUNTERFEIT:
1) A Married Man
2) Your Ex that left you to Marry someone else
3) Your Neighbour who is about to Marry someone else, but has refused to tell you
4) Your Colleague who already told you he is in a Relationship
5) Your Counsellor
6) Your Imam or Pastor
7) A man with no source of livelihood at all and whose financial and psychological problems have suddenly become your compulsory additional burden.
Now the list can go on, but the fact remains that this Category is all about anyone you are dating or investing your emotions on who won't last with you, because they are not suppose to be in your life in that CAPACITY in the first place.
No matter how real what you get from these set of people are, it will always be a COUNTERFEIT, that's why it's always SWEET when you taste it, but VERY BITTER when it goes down. You will NEVER be SECURE in such love, no matter how much the counterfeit tries.
Have you noticed your emotion is NEVER stable in that kind of relationship? At some point you are so much in love, and wish it will last, or that the person isn't Married, but please get it into YOUR STURBORN THICK SKULL that the Person you are with, is NOT AVAILABLE!!!
By the way there are lots of Married Men right now parading themselves as SINGLE Men. How do you catch one? He will be too experienced at taking care of you, than a single guy can do, and guess what, that's what sweeps you off your feet in the first place right? Everything seems right, everything is just in place, except that HE IS A COUNTERFEIT!
Let's look at the Dictionary Meaning of Counterfeit:
1) made in imitation of something genuine with the intent to deceive or defraud; forged
2. simulated; sham: counterfeit affection.
3. an imitation designed to deceive or defraud
4. an impostor; cheat.